After I had children, I was introduced to a new body. At times I look in the mirror and compare myself to what I used to look like. But I know my children don’t care if my skinny jeans fit, or if I’m wearing lipstick, or if my hair is done. They love me because I kiss their “ouchie” away, because I make them smile when they are sad. Their love makes me feel happy, special, beautiful.
To me beauty isn’t something you possess, it is something you create. Beauty is making a positive difference, even a little one. In the end no one will remember what type of shoe you wore, they will only remember the beauty you created for them. Smile at a neighbor, open the door for a co-worker, and if you can, kiss an “ouchie” away. Just make sure it’s not a stranger’s kid 🙂
“You don’t love a woman because she is beautiful, she is beautiful because you love her” – source unknown
Tiffany says
That quote always makes me tear up a bit. It’s so true! Lovely post!
Sunny & Star says
Lovely quote. Your kids are lucky to have such a stylish, classy mom.
Chrissy says
Wonderful post and what a beautiful quote! Love it! xxx
rlutz says
So beautifully said…
HazelandMare says
This is so sweet- you are absolutely correct! 🙂
theolivetree says
you are soooo right!
Kimberly says
love it so beautiful!!
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Bon Bon says
Preach it lovely lady! This is amazing. What a beautiful mama AND woman! xoxo
Janette says
She’s my pal! That pretty much means Im pretty cool! Haha!! GREATTTT post Meli!!! I think this should be the intro to you know what… Text me if you dont know what im talking about..lol
Natalie | The Bobby Pin says
That quote couldn’t be more true. I love it.
Laura says
Melissa you have done it again! Beautiful post reminding us all of what really matters. In 20 years other won’t remember the shoes we wore or the accessories we added, but they will remember how we made them feel.
Alicia Fish says
Thank you so much for sharing!
Cassie Nafziger says
Beautifully said. Great guest post! I love Melissa’s blog ♥
Lydia Marie says
That quote is just perfect. Great post.
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Anna of IHOD says
Melissa, this is so beautifully written. It gave me chills. The joys of motherhood are quite worth the trade:) However, you look amazing and your children are stunning!
Claire says
Melissa, this is so great! It’s totally true and even when you feel not pretty, it’s so neat to see yourself through your kids’ eyes! Because to them you’re beautiful no matter what!
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Grandma Sue says
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!